What to do when a Taurus man is hurt?
A man born between April 21st and May 20th is the traditional style of male. He is calm, practical, and down-to-earth. In general, he is absolutely charming and gives off mystery and romance.
However, have you ever imagined when a Taurus man is hurt? This cheerful, friendly guy does hold grudges. So, how does he act if getting hurt? What should you do if he acts negatively?
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Taurus Man Behavior When Hurt…
The individual of Taurus zodiac sign is dependable but stubborn as well.
Once you ruin his emotional feelings, he may find it hard to trust you. Although he looks tough on the outside, he is extremely sensitive at heart. In any relationship, he always tries his best. But, he will feel wounded when his effort is not appreciated. When you upset a Taurus male, it takes a while for him to respond again.
See also: How to hurt a Taurus man?
If he knows that you play with his feelings, his pride makes it hard for him to reach out to you. Also, he may have no interest in investing time towards a female later.
Well, what happens when you hurt a Taurus man?
In case you are dating the Bull male, note that his feelings take a while to heal. He feels secure about you but you broke his security. In case you ask for his forgiveness, you must get used to his “silent treatment”.
Firstly, give him a couple days to consider everything. Then, you can send an airy note saying you are always thinking of him. Ask how he’s doing recently in addition and tell him you wish to hear from him soon.
Understanding a Hurting Taurus Male
Still feel curious about Taurus man behavior when hurt?
He, in particularly, tends to act out emotions via his stuff. Maybe this is his own way of saying “I love you,” especially when he invested a lot of feelings and hopes in you.
He doesn’t want to become hurtful.
From his viewpoint, there is no sense in trying to explain and end up even more hurt. Also, when he can’t have what they want, this is how he acts. He will give you the silent treatment or act nonchalant. More interestingly, this guy will give up on something or someone if they know that it is obtainable.
Of course, not all Taurus men would act the same when they are hurt. Yet, how to handle that once your partner behaves like this? Remember that he is a feminine sign which makes him fragile and sensitive.
Try a soft approach. For example, “What’s wrong? Did I do something wrong?
Please we need to communicate. Let me know what’s bothering you”. It sounds cliché, but it’s a good way to talk to him. Give him some time to cool down. Later, when you’re sure he would already calm down, text him.
Only if he replies, then you can talk about this matter to him. If not, then keep trying but, at the same time, you shouldn’t make him suffocated with the pushing.
Read more: Virgo and Taurus love at first sight
How a Taurus Man Gets over a Breakup?
Learn just exactly Taurus man feelings after break up.
Can he manage to end things peacefully?
Or will he throw his stuff across the room and act intensely?
One thing for sure, nobody likes breaking up; however, at times it’s necessary. It’s no one’s fault, sometimes two people just aren’t compatible anymore. That’s just how relationships worked out – you are in love and then you separate. You may not know but every breakup has warning signs beforehand.
He is notorious for working on any project until its end. This includes his relationships.
How Taurus man handles a breakup?
Devoted and committed, so he may have a difficult time moving on after that event.
He may feel hurt after a falling out with someone. He has mixed emotions of anger, depression, grief and hate. Yet, he still hopes for reconciliation deep down. This guy normally thinks of the good times and how good his ex-partner is. On the other hand, once he makes up his mind, he won’t look back anymore.
Although he may need a bit of time to detach or heal, there’s no getting him back. He is the Bull, very stubborn and stable, remember?
In reality, it’s a rare Taurus man to be the one to instigate a breakup.
How to Break up with Your Taurus Man?
Talking about Taurus man feelings after break up, is it easy to cut off with him?
Actually, it takes a long time this guy to give up on a relationship. However, if he has decided to move on, there is no turning back. He, while it is hard to admit, is not the best judge of character. Even if he discovers his lover has been less than honest, he still clings on to hope.
Breaking up with a Taurus, again, is not easy. But if you already made up your mind, then you’ve got your work cut out for you.
Firstly, try this sneaky and immature method – becoming wildly erratic! Your man is stable, dependable, and incredibly set in his way. Due to that, why don’t you mess with your partner’s way of doing things?
Start rearranging the furniture without warning or input. Cook for him all the things he hates.
Be as erratic as you want to be. It may take some time, but your Taurus will lose their mind. Once his temper is insane, you can make your exit. According to Taurus man and breakup advice, here is the compassionate approach if you don’t want to hurt him horribly.
Okay, be honest!
He’s strong and he can take it, though breaking up is not what he wants. He will soon replace you with another improved lover, so don’t cry too many tears for him. Instead, try to develop new, transitional routines to take you both through that awkward stage.
This stage is important, especially after you are over but before your new and separate lives have begun. If he keeps seeing you every day, wean him off you. Well, you can see him once a week for a while. Stay consistent!
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Hi I just want to know I did hurt my Taurus man but it wasn’t intentional I was not in situation to support him. So how could I bring bk things normal as I really wish to even if he is stubborn but yes I love him, he has asked a distance fr 2months but in between it’s his bday I dunno wat to do???
Dear Gunjan,
This man can not communicate correctly when hurt. His anger comes out as an explosion…so the best thing to do is write to him. Expressing your sorry and that you love him. You need the security that you love him, as it’s how Taurus is. Your Taurus is sensitive when hurt. If you hurt him, he becomes stubborn as a mule and u can not change the situation. But if u point fingers at him for his attitude or the way he acts and don’t own up to your own faults, then yes the situation will get worse.
You have to be sensitive with Taurus. He will shut you out and not talk, but in that time he is also thinking. If you really love him. don’t let the silence go to long without an apology…getting to the bottom of it a sincer letter w/apology explaining why you were not yourself will help.
Sincere!
Hi I hurt my taurus man really bad… I am in need for some help from anywhere because I have NEVER ever in my life felt this way before with a man before I am very out of shape where I am seeing a therapist and I’m with my family 24/7 after work… I am 25 years old and only been with 3 different realationships. Before my taraus man came to my life…
Long story short when i was going through a break up in 2015 my friend the taurus man that became my boyfriend where we met in college later on has left me and I feel hopeless because its my fault… I am determined no mater how long i have to wait I want to get back with him. Even if it takes years.. Because hes worth it and i don’t care what people say…
We got together jan 2017 because I finally gave in but we we were friends for one and half before then he always wanted to be with me but gave me time to heal from my x….but 6months in 2017 after we were together i cheated on him… He didn’t know… Then when turned 8months he found my x and I were texting and he was sending me photos… I didn’t do any thing throigh the texts but when my taurus man found out he was angry… He stormed out furious…NEVER ive seen this man this way…2hrs later he comes back and tells me he’s done with THIS…he hates my x so much…hes telling me if I slept with him i said no…because that would destroy him and i felt awful… I told him no and I told him lets work it out… It took almost a 2hr conversation begging him to take me back in person that day in August….he gave me rules to follow if he wanted this work… I had to cut my x from my life permanently that meant his family all of their numbers and blocking them from Facebook with no explanation. So i did because I felt stupid it took me this to finally let go of my toxic x that always been stocking me ETC.. A total nut bag… Months went by and my taraus man was trusting me…we were planning to get married go back to school again get our stuff moving… We were a adult relationship…we were set for each other…. I was grateful and thanking him the time i was gaining his trust again to have him in my life….but then bad luck came back to hunt me down April 13 Friday morning around 2am he calls me and my taurus man found out i slept with my x he told me that my x sent him messages and a pic of ME naked that i slept with him… He told me if I slept with him i denyed it then later on he told me dont lie to me those nails you had in the picture is when we were together…and i couldn’t hold it any longer and the PAIN so i told him yes I did…it was a mistake….and I couldn’t forgive myself… He was hurt…we were talking but then hanged up… He didnt say anything he was just broken down.. Friday afternoon that day he comes to house before he goes to work and we cuddle but didn’t have sex cause we didnt have time.. He has tears in eyes and I can see the pain… He leaves me the car cause i was going to pick him up from work… He wanted that… Nighttimee comes aroujd AND hes COLD…distant… And we get to my place and tells me give me my stuff back I don’t want you to give it to that idiot..
I told him on my knees crying that I’m sorry but he wasn’t looking at my face…he didn’t.or couldn’t…perhaps…. Begging him to think that these past months since that day in August ive been a changed woman… I did everything like he wanted.. I told him to please go talk to my friend so he can think it over..since he told me he was gonna talk to his friends this time.. Saturday comes around he friend is telling me hes picking up my taurus mans things…he tells me I don’t wants going on but hes telling us tonight hes tllling me…
Saturday night comes on and i have the silent treatment and couldn’t take it i call him and he friend calls me and tell me to stay away from him and dont talk to him…. Sunday comes around and i was bugging him towards the end of the night that i need to aee him in person cause I’m lost in the dark cause ge went to see my friend at his work… So my tarus man finally calls and tells OK you want to talk lets talk… He told me no lets do this in phone not person… I said sorry to lets work this out since the past couple of months we were doing great progress he was trusting me again… He said no i cant see you or talk you dont drag this out longer then it has too… 1hr on the phone i let go cause he was TIRED and telling me I’m tired and i havent gotten sleep.. I was crying in the phone but didn’t hang up..until i did… The last words i said I will love him and i will carry him in my heart….. That’s the last time we spoken April 15…..
Hes friends blocked me except 3 of them… And one hes friends that I work he’s told me if you need help to get better i will help you but not with huk so dont ask me to help you… Cause I dont know if you guys are gonna get back together i dont know..he’s hurt and we never seen him this way… His friend told me i need to love myself in order to love him… I cant be a wreck I need to get better and time needs to pass you guys need time apart…
I haven’t made ateept to speak with him i havent. I want to write a letter a poem telling him in the letter that i will wait to the end of time hell and back i don’t care if people think I’m dumb cause he’s cold with me… I want him back and I want to send reminders that i will alwasy be there despite him blocking me from all media… I’m just afraid and i need to make a change in my self before i ever see him in person…like lossing weight which i am and getting a different look. I want change. But i want him to know i am there but I’m not ready to see him.. Until o look like a different person.
People think im STUPID because i paid all of his bills. 1month before he left me and im not asking for the money BACK almost 4000 and i don’t care about the money i lost…. I have everything in life but my one true love is gone. And I determined to get him back no matter how long it takes
Hi Rebecca,
Give him a little space to analyze the situation. He truly loves you and when you guys cuddled that night it was almost his closure to let go and it was killing him. You have apologized. I like you would not let go and him being a Taurus they always keep a connection in their heart, they have a hard time letting go as well. Every now and then send a text a letter maybe. Always try to keep in touch don’t let too much time pass by but on the other hand don’t’ suffocate or attack either. Taurus’ think a lot and they are stubborn and when they make a decision to let go they are really serious about that but you had a connection, so keep hope alive. But you also need to somehow find inner peace with yourself because this can destroy you too. The Taurus man tends to shelter himself from what has hurt him, kind of like a self preservation tactic, and although you have hurt him, he also loves you and steering clear from you is away for him to avoid getting hurt again but the love is still there. I wish you all the best and many blessings for both of you.
Hi am very much disturbed these days actually 6 months ago,i met a guy who is actually through some social media source through my friend and we have started chating whole day and then meetngs n all and in the beginning only i told a false satment to him that i dont want to get into love or anything but we can be together forever like this..m but when the time passes i really felt that i really love him and expressed my feeling to him… He got angry and then after sometime he got noramal but the point was the fighting and argument has started between us… As when i have started loving him i have started spying on him and come to know that he is very much active in social media and talk to more girls too… From here the things has started like hell… He is a tarus guy n my saggitarious…. So from here we use to talk butvery less and more off arguments and when i explain him that i really do love him… So he become so stubborn that started saying that first when we met you only said that love is waste and we wont love so what is ur true face and i dont love you at all your just my friend and i dont love you at all…. But i have never give up… We always end up with fight but then again meet afater few days and then thinks get normal…. But now its like we have not met yet since long and it has become so verst that after two months when i decided to meet him at wanted to explain him… He all of sudden said that he is committed to his x girl now… And he only loves her not me… But the truth is i really felt and saw love in his eyes… But he never confess it he always said that he only think that i am his friend… Not that we are not talking at alll… As he said that i cant help it as i have my x girlfriend with me… But i dont know i feels that he will nevwr go to that lady because she cheated on him and got physical to someone else so i dkntbelive that he will go to her… Its been a weeks time thr is no so much of stress i only feel him… Miss him wanted to talk to him but as taurus guy he is so stubborn that i dont know what to do… And how will i get to know that do he really feels for me or moved on pleaae help n guid me.
Hi..i just had a big fight with my taurus man. I did something that was a maximum and out of the limit where he had warned me before. He said it was over between us but i told him i dont want it to be ended in bad way. I did admit my mistake and i had apologized sincerely and told him that it wont happen again in the future if i was given a last chance. He just told me it wont be the same and might be a lot harder for us. I still insist to continue our relationship and hopefully i could gain back his trust and his love. For few days he didnt reply my text or called but eventually he did replied and answered after 3 days and we even went out for dinner but of course he being so cold. I cant really tell whther he did it bcoz he still care or is he going to do things to pay me back..coz ive read somewhere that Taurus man do hold grudges. I do love him very much and all i wanted to is to love him and not going to hurt him anymore by doing things that he dont like. And i also would like to know how or what should i do to make our conversation more interesting for him as i want to win his heart back. Please help me..thank you.
Dear Nana,
Never get a Taurus mad! They are good listeners so i would recommend you talk to him, put him down and explain everything and if he doesn’t listen, i would suggest to tell him that you have said all there is, let him think about it and give him few days to cool off…sweetie it’s his own conscience fighting him, i doubt it has anything to do with, im sad for him, taurus are usually very loving and caring to forget or disappoint someone they care about.
Good luck!
My Taurus guy has asked for space, this was after I confronted him and because I felt that he was hiding something from me. He thinks that I have doubts about him being honest. So he asked for some space, and its been 5 days, he has never returned my phone calls and messages. I am going crazy. I do not know if he still wants this relationship. I keep sending him messages saying how much I love him and that I need him back. i really feel terrible. He said he would talk to me but he never did. Ive read all traits and personality attributes of a Taurus male, and it seems that he may be pondering things on about us. But I just want to know if he still wants this, would he even say it? Im a Sagittarius and I am really an impatient one. I don’t now what else to do. I really love him. and this entire space thing is breaking me apart each time.
I have been in an open relationship with a Taurus for two years. We had broken up early February, our break up was simple no argument, no bad feelings, and it was his decision, so I let him go, but that break up only lasted a week. This weekend he broke up with his other girlfriend, we both knew he was with each other, and that he loves both of us. I know he feels terrible because their break up was messy, also I know how much she means to him. I want to make him feel better and cook for him, talk about what happened and try to have him apologize and get back with her. The problem is that he said he is not sorry about the breakup. He also has not been texting much since the breakup, I know he just wants to think as he said, he would talk to me on a later day. Then I thought I could only cook and we can go for a run or play a few games. I do not want him to feel as I know he is. He is a lovely person but stubborn as any Taurus. Like I know all sides of him as I had to deal with the good and bad times. I don’t know if I am doing the right thing by coming over. I need help should I or should I not.
Hi; my taurus man and i were in relationship for 4 years.then he lied to me.start chasing other beautiful girls.being a cancer woman i was hurt a lot by my stubborn taurus man.but i love him sooo so much.but since i was hurt and blocked him ; he started giving me silent treatment.we had small talk on whatsapp.i apologized to him(though it was he who hurt me).he told me to meet.then at the day of meeting he cancelled the plan.and told that he can’t come.so i understood he is not interested in me anymore.so i deleted his number.then after 2 3 months of the incident, he sent friend req to my bestie in fb(i do not have a fb ac).but she rejected his frnd request.now he deleted my number probably. But i still miss him so much..i love him a lot.though i was misunderstood..i still can apologise if he was hurt.i don’t know what to do.
Hi actually someone my Taurus man felt that it’s not going right,and he said he cannot continue,I am myself a taurus I pushed him and made him more irritated which made him more sure that this won’t work, now what should I do?? Please help me,to change his thoughts it getting soo difficult day by day, and because of this lockdown we are unable to meet.. please help urgently